Mentoring takes place between two people – the mentor and the mentee. Mentoring can also be provided in groups consisting of several mentors or mentees. Mentors and mentees have different roles.
These roles are presented here, and instructions are also given on how to form mentoring pairs. As mentoring may have various goals, roles must also be defined, and mentoring pairs must be formed on their basis.
Mentor
A mentor is an experienced professional in their field, whose role is to share their experience and knowledge of working life and their respective field with the mentee. The mentor knows a great deal of information that may be useful for the mentee.
The mentor’s role is to understand, listen, coach or be a critical friend or mirror for an mentee who is considering their own professional identity, goals, skills or working life in general.
The key task of the mentor is to support and encourage the mentee to move forward. It is important that the mentor listens to the mentee’s wishes, goals and thoughts, offers different perspectives and helps the mentee on their way to professional growth.
Mentoring focuses on the mentee’s development and growth. Often, it also gives ideas, feelings of success and experiences of growth to the mentor. Being a mentor is a valuable experience, which also increases the mentor’s skillset and offers joy in helping others.
Mentee
An mentee is at the beginning of their career or only planning their career, and they want to actively develop their professional skills. The mentee may be a native Finn or someone with an immigrant background.
The mentee’s role is to be active; after all, mentoring is based on the mentee’s wishes and goals. In other words, the mentee must raise themes in which they want to develop and grow. These are the goals of mentoring.
The mentee needs to ask questions and present ideas that they have relating to working life, job-seeking and professions. The mentee is responsible for their learning and for using everything they have learned from the mentor.
Matching mentoring pairs
Matching ideal mentoring pairs is an important part of mentoring. Pairs can be formed in many ways, depending on the main goals of mentoring.
For example, pairs can be formed on the basis of professional backgrounds, areas of interest, gender or age. Sometimes, mentors and mentees with different professional backgrounds can also form well-functioning pairs. When matching mentoring pairs, consider the mentee’s wishes and goals for mentoring. Ideal pairs must always be formed separately each time.
The mentor and mentee should enter into a mentoring agreement. You can find a mentoring agreement template on the Career mentoring phases and supporting material page.